We prefer that married people attend with their spouse, at least for the first few times. After that, if your partner occasionally can't attend, we know that it's because she or he can't be with you, rather than they don't know where you are. Single men, you can avoid being wait-listed by bringing single women as your guests. That helps us to maintain the balance between men and women. That's not as difficult as some people think. Your partner need not be someone with whom you have a romantic or an intimate relationship. She could be a neighbor, a co-worker, or a family member.
We know single men who have brought female neighbors, friends, and women from work. One guy brought two women he met in a Dale Carnegie course. Another brought his sister, and some have brought women from church.
Be aware of the influence of your own subconscious attitude. If you expect her to think it's "dirty" or for some other reason turn you down, count on it, she probably will!
Try it! You could start by casually mentioning the joys of clothes-free recreation to your female friends. In answer to "How was your weekend?", you could respond, "I visited a nudist club, and it was one of the most relaxing experiences of my life!" Avoid being excessively enthusiastic; just answer her questions sincerely and completely. Let her bring up the subject again; if she feels like you're pressuring her, she'll probably back off.
After she's asked questions a couple of times, direct her to this web site. After she's read our information, mention that you could arrange for her to visit a nudist club. Don't seem aggressive! Suggest that she could go when you won't be there (keep in mind that she might be afraid that you're just hoping to see her undressed), or that you'd be willing to accompany her if she'll be more comfortable attending with somebody she knows. Or suggest that she bring one or two of her female friends. It's often easier to bring two women, than one. Something men will never understand, like going to the rest room together. Of course, every individual might respond differently, but these approaches have helped many people overcome that initial hesitancy to try nudism.
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